Many scratch their heads in disbelief over the decisions young adults make. Why did you resign out of that prestigious company to work in a mountain school? Why did you go for that guy without an education achievement as good as yours? why did you choose a partner from the other side of the tracks. When young adults make decisions seemingly in discord with their prior life direction, it could be a sign that they are individuating —-making decisions and starting out lives more in line with who they are. Read here my thoughts on it.